Dear readers, I got this from a lady seeking our advice.
I cheated on this guy 2 years ago when we were dating, because I did not really love him then. So we parted. Last month, he came back saying he wanted to marry me , that 2 different pastors told him i am the right lady for him.
I have not told him Yes or No. Presently,I am not seeing anyone.
I do not think he will trust me. I cheated on him twice.
What do I do?
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The question is do u love him now?enough to marry him? Her answer will determine her next move.
ReplyDeleteDo you love him? If yes, what is different about him that made you love him now and not then? When u can answer that, you will know the basis of ur feeling. If No, what's d essence na? U will still cheat on him again. And if at all he eventually marries u, the day u do anything that has suspicions, his imaginations will run wild and it could be catastrophic for you.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like a really bad idea. But we're missing a bit of info. When you say, "I did not really love him then", does that mean you love him now?
ReplyDeleteWhy did you break up? Was it over the infidelity?