5 Signs to know Mr. Right

Okay ladies (guys are allowed too), here  is to what has been going through my mind all day, not all day per say but then.. I am sure you get what I mean *winks*. I have read a lot from my awesome bloggers/writers on how to know when you are with the wrong guy or when he is not just the right one for you, but then I ask how do you know your are with the right BAE....

I want to share a few of what "I" think is a convincing factor:

-Religion: To me I see this as priority, because it really does matter if you guys have the same level of understanding when it comes to religion. You would not want to get married and have to drive separate cars to church on Sundays to different locations.What happens when children come, where do they go?  Not so healthy, not so good for a relationship or marriage, If I must say, but then that's what I feel.If you feel you cannot go with his, communicate and if you feel you can go with his, awesome, but going seperate ways first of all brings about separation.

-If he listens and makes a move: Oh perfect you have a guy who listens that's awesome, its even more terrible when he does not listen but what then happens when you have this one who listens to your complains and says, okay babe for that minute and the next minute, the listener is not acting? Huh? . So if I must suggest, when deciding please put that into consideration, I know ladies love the attention, in an event where you love bae so much and he listens but does not make a move please try and communicate. But to me the right bae is one who listens and makes a move.

-Peace on your inside: Yeeeaaah! This to me is primary, if you are dating a guy who you are not proud of then are you sure that is the right bae?, when you are with the right one there is this peace on your inside and you know that yes I feel extremely fulfilled. Please do not struggle with your heavy heart, a troubled spirit in a relationship says it all. I cannot exactly tell why your spirit man will be troubled but then God knows best, but trust me when you are with the right partner there is this peace on the inside. Some of us might say I have never had such, you might have but you did not know. But basically just pray.



-One who drives your passion with you: Going back to the listening guy who makes the move. Just like I said before there are partners who are awesome listeners but then it hurts to know that you share your ideas with the person you love and then it goes under the carpet. Driving your passion with you does not necessarily mean giving you money and all, but one who shows concern by asking how are you going about this, hey babe how is this working out for you.

Finally,

-One who loves you for who you are: One who loves you for who you are would not want to change a thing about you, maybe a few changes but not the major things like advising you to start dressing to seduce when naturally you are a decent dresser or one who tells you to go get a bum implant. One who loves you for who you are sees beyond all of those things and loves you just the way you are.

Most ladies suffer as emotional victims and it is not so good for us. Like I wrote in my post Do people really change people in relationships, you might be in that persons life for a reason other than relationship. Please be in a relationship that if you marry the person you will have more than a million reasons to want to stay even if there are hurdles.

Is this how it works for you?

If yes kindly advice further, If no, kindly advice further in the comment box below.