Make the CHIOCE.

Pain and sadness are natural expressions and if they exist freely from our inside we have no choice but to freely give them out, so also is joy and total happiness but then there is one factor that splits across both and that is CHOICE, you have the ability to choose how you treat yourself, nobody can teach you to love yourself, you have to make that decision on your own because the truth remains that for every atom of love you show to yourself , you have same amount deposited in you to give to others.

Things and conditions might have caused us pain and that pain automatically leaves a sting but it is our ability to make the choice to Detach from that emotion of pain and move on to joy, see it for good and appreciate its lessons, it might not be easy but it is possible, because the only way you can properly relate with others is when you have a proper relationship with Yourself.

Make the CHIOCE.

Perspection

Perspective is not about what you see but the meaning you label to it.

I am faced with a situation of how life has happened. But then what really matters are how we view life from the angle we tend to look at things.

Life dishes in our face different scenarios but we are left to interpret those scenarios in way that will set us free rather than lock us up

I remember growing up, I had an amazing(I call it amazing now but then I described it otherwise) experience, I met my mum and dad not in the best of moods after having the couple not happy drama and I was trying to approach my mum to tell her something I believed could help the situation and the next thing that happened was just a feeling that I got that I could not relate why and how but here was I standing in front of my mum who had just given me a resounding slap that has left me wondering “why did you not just listen to me first?”

Smile Because You Can

Is it possible to stay smiling? A question someone asked me the other day. I sat on this question for a while because I had previously had a conversation with a friend and he goes, you are never smiling, you should learn to keep smiling so people will know you are approachable.

I wondered why should I just keep smiling even when walking on the road. But the day I tried it, I got these 3 answers,

Seeking Social Validation

Seeking Social Validation....I AM, ARE YOU? Ohhhh! Scratch that.

Let us start over…

Hey awesome people, I feel so glad having to come drop my 0.5 cents on what I feel on my areas of concentration.

Where did it all go wrong? Are the gyms suddenly increasing in their numbers making people lose who they truly are?