Moments Of Inspiration: Sex Tale With Osagie Alex

Truth hurt, hurts heal in local parlance truth dey pain but pain dey finish.

It is a great privilege to share with great minds about one of the most talked about topic globally ‘’sex’’ ‘’sex’’ yes sex, because they say if you want to hit it big, tie what you sell around it, cos sex sells, that’s why our TV commercials, internet adds, publicity stunts somehow shows something about sex.
So we will talk about the tale that sex brings, because it is a tale that sometimes it’s bitter, other times its sweet,So simply put sex; a tale bitter sweet. You wondering how can something be both sweet and bitter? Sex like a computer virus, can stay comfortably oblivious of the destruction in your files sorry life endlessly fascinating and always controversial, there are a million and one ways to talk about sex. Sex is big, big business.

More than half of all spending on the internet is estimated to be related to sex.
God designed sex as his gift for marriage. You give your body to your spouse and they give you theirs. It’s meant to build a bond that lasts a lifetime, with the potential to create children as well.
In our sex-saturated culture, many unmarried people, especially teenagers, feel pressured to be sexually active. The temptations now may be greater than ever because people are delaying marriage until their late 20s or 30s.
Sexually-transmitted diseases, unintended pregnancy, and emotional pain are too often the price paid for sex without marriage. Sex addiction could involve sex with a partner, but it may also mean activities such as pornography, masturbation, visiting prostitutes or using chat lines.
For many people, these habits cause them problems, they are unable to control these urges and actions despite the problems they may cause in their relationships, finances and professional lives. This addiction is similar to substance abuse because it is caused by the powerful chemical substances released during sex.
Sex addicts, become dependent on the emotional stability provided by romantic partners. Sex addicts often have low self-esteem and lack self-identity, and their addiction can result in obsessive, controlling behaviour.
The cause of sex addictions is often rooted in childhood or adolescence. Early trauma, neglect or depression may be factors.

Thinking of sex to the detriment of other activities or continually engaging in excessive sexual practices despite a desire to stop.Spending considerable time in activities related to sex, such as cruising for partners or spending hours online visiting pornographic Web sites, Neglecting obligations such as work, school or family in pursuit of sex.

Continually engaging in the sexual behavior despite negative consequences, such as broken relationships or potential health risks.Feeling irritable when unable to engage in the desired behavior.

More generally, sex addicts tend to organize their world around sex.Their goal in interacting with people and in social situations is obtaining sexual pleasure.

A while ago, we unveiled what you never have thought off about SEX on SEX; a tale bitter sweet.
They say all guys want the cookie, so would do anything to get it. Well in economics the law of demand and supply holds.

They say all guys are dogs, they are all the same, hunters and the ladies are their game. This really isn't completely true . When accustomed to lies, then truth can be taken as a lie. Sex most times isn't the first thing in a guy’s mind; it is there no doubt, Guys love to be true friends, companions and confidant, but when being taken for granted, we don't rant, we just chant as the timer has been set off.


Collective ignorance never is wisdom. Guys feel seen as just for the sex, ladies forget that too is stressful even though successful,She has no license, but she drives Guys crazy, her demands are not easy, but since it’s an investment, Guys must profit. What's even worse, is when being compared like you are not man enough, like below 5mins is elementary, you need to try harder, she can do 5 guys like it was a series movie. If you try am, na A&E unit straight, soon you realize that between try harder & why bother is a decision.

Nothing is as sweet as Sex, yet nothing kills like it. It’s not just physical death because you can be alive yet dead.

There are civilized ways to prove love, because condom don't prevent soul ties. Ever knot a tie wrongly before, yawa gas na be dat

Those minutes of energy expended, exchanging years of prophecy for ecstasy. You have more to lose than her.  She may take in & get rid of it, but what you lose you can or may not recover. That's the inception for suffer.
Let's walk down memory lane, have you noticed any change intellectually since you began this escapade that has now held you captive. Remember how smart, alive, productive & result oriented. But now you are just struggling to get along. Your strength dissipated anytime jack hit the pot. You the modern day Samson, for pleasure &comfort you are giving off your strength, now you are weak like dodo.Some of these girls are Oliver twist, so when you not fit, you get benched. That's how Boo, turn to Who, ironic in it
So why this talk, YOLO or OYO, you have just one life. If your heroics is in conquest in bed, it’s time to rethink before the end.

Not every meal we get served we eat, this one you should let pass, else you may be heading from grace to grass.What can a man give in exchange for his soul? What can you give in exchange for your creativity or ability?  You can get sex anywhere, anytime, any day, but can you recover what you have lost through sex anywhere, any day, anytime. If you don't think, you will stink. Your brain is more than planning how to get laid, if you are not getting paid, it is a waste.

Apart from creativity it kills, it makes you older than you really are. There are so many old young boys claiming men, thanks to sex.
Masturbate is not even an alternate. Any ejaculation affects your destination as long as it is outside marriage
Sex; safe or premarital will always leaving you counting Ex's. STD's you got that covered, Spirit transfer is that covered too?

Yes you are not saint, but it is no reason to indulge in nonsense. What’s the fun of a game, when you win yet lose?

We are all entitled to our opinions, but like dicing onions, this Sex issue has brought you more tears than cheers.

The way forward is forward. Say no to Sex, and yes to being chaste. There is a time for everything and sex has it’s too. Sex has ruined more relationship than misunderstanding and mistrust. It is just the height of lust, like plated gold you rust, I was once like you, but I made a decision & like Lot's wife, I never look back & never regret the choice. The ball is in your court, you determine your lot. Sex indeed is a tale bitter sweet.

Be wise, it is Win or Lose, a draw is a loss