This segment I will be going a little bias on the gender, speaking mostly to the females but to the favour of my male brothers. I hear guys complain of ladies of the Jet age (lol) and I’m surprised, and I say but from the beginning it was not so. What did we do oo?
They say ladies of this age are too materialistic, is it true? They say we want a whole lot of luxury, is it true? Ah! Okay. I personally can say I have seen a few but then it does not apply to so many of us. To my sisters, I will try and give some advice just to help who we are and what the men think of us because what and who they see us to be matters, knowing that Adam has to find Eve.
I will be giving the advice the best way I can to ladies and to the gentlemen out there we will address yours too as time goes on.
Who really is the Man of that ladies dream, that lady you see out there? It can be true that some or most of us if we see what we write as our dream man, Ah! It is good to write out a lovely life ahead, why not! But in the pursuit of the things of luxury we should not get carried away.
I will actually like to make an illustration with a group A girls list and group B girls list and compare both of them.
A common list for the group A girls are:
• A God fearing man
• A truthful Man
• A handsome Man
• A man with a bright future
• A faithful man
• A bold and courageous man
• A caring and Loving man
• A family man
And the group B girls list goes this way:
• A good looking man
• A well-built man
• A man with 3 cars
• A man that lives at lekki for those that live in Lagos
• A man that can take me to minimum 2 countries for pre-wedding photo shoot.
Lol guys better brace up.
This might not be the best criteria but then I must say for the group A girls and Group B girls may God grant our heart desires. But above having all of these on this list is not what matters, having a happy marriage even with all of this is what matters. And there is a secret inside these list, List A and List B, the secret is all that was listed in 5 bullet points In List B is listed in only 2 bullet points in List A. Someone please help me out, the smart one gets a price for that.
But where did true love go!? In this area, the men and ladies are at fault. Most times, ladies write a whole lot of list and when they run a checklist and put together a character of 5 then they pursue it with all their might and they forget the place of true love.
The man of our dreams must not have the world at the point of our meeting but then he has to be the owner of all in List B and even more.
The lady and the man of her dreams, let us put the future into consideration when making these choices, remember all that glitters is not gold. Let us put the future into consideration in our plans rather than put the things we see today into consideration and put the future aside. Material things will always come, most times we should put our thoughts before our actions. Support the man you love, rather than love the money that the owner will not support you. With God and love, the lady can make up a plan for the man of her dreams and list A and list B will be yours. It is still your choice to make, but this is my genuine advice.
DO NOT GO CHASING THE SMOKE THAT COMES AFTER THE FIRE, WHEN YOU CAN OWN THE FIRE AND THE SMOKE.
Do not go chasing after what has already been produced for no reason when you can start the production and be proud you did. Love what you have and let love and God be the foundation of our relationships. Let US (you and me) change the notion the guys have about us.
We can make our love life and marriage be the envy of the world even with nothing.
This is the little I know. I will be glad to learn from you. Kindly let me know what you think. For personal message reach out to me with my contact information below and you could send a mail chukwuuju@ymail.com .
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