Laughing is a medicine that heals the body and soul, it does same to relationships.
There are times we do not have to take everything our partner does or says as a serious one and automatically make it lead to a misunderstanding. We should learn to apply the SENSE OF HUMOR THEORY. We should not always frown at everything.
There are stories we just feel like telling our partners so as to make them laugh but then it turns out the wrong way. Am sure that has happened to most of us and if you are on the side of getting angry about every story your partner tells then this is for you. Have you ever wondered what if actually this story my partner is telling me can just be that which is needed to spark the mood. Lets read about Patricia and Philip.
Philip was to see Patricia that evening by 7pm and on her way, Patricia having dressed up, stepping out of her house she met this guy who stalks her everyday and this night he tells her how lovely she looks and how he would love to take her out. But then obviously Patricia who was in desperate look out for a cab obviously ignored all he said and quickly flagged the closest taxi and sped off to meet Philip, on getting there about 7:45pm, later than the actual time, after apologizing and stating how difficult it was for her to get a cab. Philip welcomed her with warmth and then they began to eat and drink.
At first Patricia wondered what would happen if I told Philip about the event of the night I just hope he doesn't think I lied to him about coming late and then she finally opened up, told Philip the story how this particular guy had been disturbing her around her neighborhood and that evening on her way out he walked up to her again stating how beautiful she was and how he wanted to take her out. But to her surprise thinking Philip will say so is that why you came late because you were listening to some guy, or how sure am I that you have not been doing things behind me.
He goes, oh my love, I totally understand what that guy is going through, who on earth can keep his eyes off a beauty like you, am so blessed to have you and then they teased each other laughed about it and had a lovely evening.
The question is How Many of Us can do that?
Never let unnecessary things in a relationship become necessary. In a relationship the important factors are God, the ability to think and Understanding. Learn to understand when your partner says something for the fun of it and let it go. Sometimes some issues are worth laughing off.
Start today and Laugh that issue off.
This is the little I know and will appreciate your comments and if you have a story you would love me to give a solution to, kindly share via my mail chukwuuju@ymail.com.
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