Seeking Social Validation

Seeking Social Validation....I AM, ARE YOU? Ohhhh! Scratch that.

Let us start over…

Hey awesome people, I feel so glad having to come drop my 0.5 cents on what I feel on my areas of concentration.

Where did it all go wrong? Are the gyms suddenly increasing in their numbers making people lose who they truly are?

Slim fit or fat fit which are you? Does it really matter. It has become a thing of major concern where people are no longer proud in their own skin because they feel they are too fat and hence the society will not validate them. Fat, Slim, Athletic, Average you are Beeeeeaaautiful(I wish I could scream this to you in person)

Do you know when your beauty,your strength and your vigour started seeking social validation? From the very first day you spoke otherwise about yourself.

Why have we let what the world feel is the thing in season become the thing for our lives. Team fit and Sexy (Summer body)

Whoever told you, you cannot become who you are with your size, and hey who says the scale has automatically become a close relative? 

I personally do not agree to this idea, I think it is high time you got down from that scale.

It is high time we loved us for who we are, not what the scale has to say about us or what the gym instructor has to offer but the beauty you see each time you look in the mirror.

You are confident, smart, beautiful and above all SEXY (Oh yes I said that) please and please do not let the society make you feel otherwise.

If you have to keep fit, do so because your health desires it and not because you want to become like a friend who is a size 6, be COMFORTABLE in your own skin and rather than seek SOCIAL VALIDATION, it is high time you started seeking SELF VALIDATION.

And just before I leave, I LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.