Friday, 20 February 2015

LOVE 101: PART 2: LOVE AND HICCUPS

Love is one thing I could spend my whole life speaking about, but in return I could spend a better part of my life learning a lot about love.

Love and Hiccups is a topic I drew from the normal activity of humans but then it takes place in our love lives. Love is selfless and so is our body and when we hiccup it makes us restless and so does love feel when we have troubles but then there is a solution, the ultimate solution to hiccup is water but what then is the ultimate solution to Loves hiccups.

Let me start by asking is it possible to love without hiccups (relationship based love), the love of God our father has no hiccup, but then is it easy to emulate same in our relationship. Definitely Yes, hence we will find the solution to hiccups when they come.

When you have HICCUPS it does a whole lot to us, which includes: Hinderance of interaction, restless state of the body and we desperately look for a solution which is WATER

So also is the story of Love when we have issues in relationships we tend to lack a whole lot which include, laughter, happiness and we give room for Anger, Lack of Communication and it could lead to break up of some relationships and for marriages most times it could lead to a Divorce. But then don't you think that hiccup you are having in your relationship can be solved. The answer is an Ultimate YES. Do you know that no matter what we do God still loves us. Sometimes I wonder what kind of love he has got in his heart. But then as humans we can do the same, we could search for the water that can quench our hiccups in relationships. I will be listing a few and dealing with them one after the other. 
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The Solution to our hiccups most times are to mention but a few: 
  • HUMILITY: Drop that pride and let go of the issue, you do not need to let pride conquer your happiness.
  • TRUTH: Say it how it is and let peace reign. Its difficult most times but then its a great solution.
  • TAKE THE BLAME: You might wonder why should I take the blame, it will only make the other person feel like he or she has won, but then you are even the greatest winner.
  • LAUGH IT OFF: Do not always take everything to be too serious, laugh off some issues and let correction be taken with Love.
  • COMMUNICATE: Communicate in a way that even people outside will wonder do these people ever quarrel, you must not shout, shouting is Vague c'mon.

There are a whole lot but then we will be treating all of these solutions one after the other.
                   You too can add what you know is a solution and lets get talking.

I cannot yarn alone, so your addition is needed. Stay tuned for the next lesson on LOVE AND HICCUPS. 





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